It’s been over a months since I’ve returned to work after maternity leave. I never thought going back to work would be as difficult as it has been. Before having my little guy I expected to walk back into the office as the firecracker that I was pre-babe. After having him I discovered how profoundly unrealistic that was. Expecting to walk into the office the same person I was when I left is the professional equivalent of expecting to wear my favorite pre-pregnancy pants out of the hospital. Ain’t gonna happen.
Once I stopped expecting motherhood to feel warm and fuzzy all the time life got much easier. Its helped to give myself permission to feel frustrated, angry, and tired sometimes. It doesn’t make me a bad parent, its just normal.
Here are ten things that I am trying to keep in mind as I adjust to my new role- Mother.
This past month as a new Mom has been an absolute blur. I gave birth, I’ve cried, I’ve laughed, and I’ve been able to function with minimal sleep. At times I have never been more happy in my entire life, and at other times I have never been more frustrated. I think the best advice I’ve read lately from Austin Moms Blog is, “You need to lower your expectations…..then probably lower them again.” Its taken me 24 days to write this post, and that’s OK, I have managed to get dressed almost every day 😉 Continue reading
Today I’m 36 weeks pregnant which leave exactly one month until our newest family member is expected to arrive. Over the last several months there have been many changes in life and my body. This past weekend of pampering and perspective is exactly what I needed to prepare for my final month of pregnancy.